The Vitalists Part 4 – The Children they Raise

A Developmental Philosophy for Citizens of the Future

By Futurist Thomas Frey

Part 4 of 6: The Children

Every generation of parents has believed, with complete sincerity, that they were raising their children well. The sincerity has never been in question. What has always been in question — and what the Vitalist framework forces us to ask with unusual directness — is whether sincerity and deliberate design are the same thing, and whether love alone, without a coherent developmental philosophy to give it structure, is sufficient to produce the kind of human beings that a civilization in genuine difficulty actually needs.

I do not think they are the same thing. I do not think love alone is sufficient, any more than a surgeon’s genuine care for a patient is sufficient without training, without technique, and without a clear understanding of what a successful outcome looks like and how to achieve it. The Vitalist loves her children. She also designs their development. This column is about what that design looks like.

Consider what Muhammad Yunus did with the Grameen Bank. When he began extending micro-loans to the poorest women in Bangladesh — people with no collateral, no credit history, no formal standing in the financial system — he didn’t just hand them money and wish them well. He asked them to commit. Before receiving a loan, borrowers were required to memorize and recite the Sixteen Decisions — a set of pledges covering health practices, education of children, refusal of dowry, investment in the family’s future, and commitment to the community. The loan came with a vow. The vow was the point. Yunus understood something that most philanthropists and policymakers miss: that transformation requires not just resources but a framework of commitment that orients the recipient toward a different kind of future. The resources alone accomplish very little. The commitment changes everything.

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Makeup may be the key to a woman’s success

Models with no makeup and natural, professional and glamorous makeup.

In a recent study  from the Massachusetts General Hospital, Harvard Medical School, Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, Procter & Gamble, and Boston University, they had a sampling of over 200 individuals, both men and women, participants rated women wearing makeup as more competent than women without makeup.

 

 

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